Selena Gomez recently responded to fan reactions regarding a viral video of her dancing with co-star Édgar Ramírez, which sparked speculation about her relationship with boyfriend Benny Blanco. The 32-year-old actress attended Sabrina Carpenter’s concert in New York City on September 29, accompanied by friends, including Ramírez, who also stars in her upcoming film Emilia Pérez.
The Viral Video from Carpenter’s Concert
In a since-deleted TikTok video, posted by Gomez’s friend Conar Franklin, the group can be seen enjoying Carpenter’s hit song “Espresso.” In one clip, Ramírez is seen dancing closely behind Gomez, with his arms wrapped around her waist as they smiled and sang along. The clip, now reposted on X (formerly Twitter), went viral, leading to fan speculation about the nature of Gomez’s relationship with Ramírez.
Gomez Responds to Criticism: “Just Friends”
As fans questioned whether Gomez was still in a relationship with Blanco, the singer and actress swiftly addressed the rumors. Taking to TikTok, Gomez sarcastically shut down the gossip, writing: “Omg how dare I dance with my bestie,” alongside a shocked face emoji. She also shared a fan-edited video of her and Ramírez dancing together at Beyoncé’s concert the previous year, further emphasizing their friendship.
Social Media Support for Benny Blanco
Following the concert, Gomez shared a video on Instagram, singing along to Carpenter’s song “Juno,” which is about love and family. In a subtle show of affection, she tagged Blanco’s Instagram account in the post. Blanco responded playfully, referencing one of Gomez’s songs by commenting: “Can’t keep my hands to myself.”
Public Confirmation of Their Relationship
Gomez and Blanco confirmed their relationship in December 2023, following months of speculation. After liking a post from celebrity news account PopFaction that hinted at their romance, Gomez simply commented, “Facts,” to make their relationship official. Despite initial backlash from fans who felt Blanco was “unworthy” of Gomez, she quickly defended her relationship.
Gomez Stands Up Against Criticism
In response to the online criticism, Gomez made it clear that she wouldn’t allow others’ opinions to influence her happiness. “I don’t understand,” she wrote. “If you actually care about me, this is my happiest… I will never allow your words to guide my life. Ever.” Gomez emphasized that if fans couldn’t accept her joy, they had no place in her life.
Benny Blanco’s Support and Their Strong Connection
Despite the public scrutiny, Gomez has expressed her gratitude for Blanco’s unwavering support. In an interview after her beauty brand Rare Beauty was named one of TIME100’s Most Influential Companies of 2024, she praised Blanco for his strength amid the criticism. “He has the strength in him that none of that noise fazes him,” she said, adding that she cherishes every moment with him.
In a recent Vanity Fair interview, Gomez gushed about her relationship with Blanco, stating, “I’ve never been loved this way. He’s just been a light… my best friend. I love telling him everything.”
With a solid bond and support for one another, Gomez and Blanco continue to focus on their relationship despite the public’s watchful eye.